The strongest response to children’s AI use is neither panic nor unrestricted access. It is informed supervision: knowing what kind of tool a child is using, what job they are asking it to do, what information they are sharing, and who remains accountable for the result.
The headline numbers
Pew Research Center surveyed 1,458 U.S. teens ages 13–17 and their parents from September 25 to October 9, 2025. The survey was designed to represent U.S. teens in that age range who live with a parent. Its overall margin of error was plus or minus 3.3 percentage points.
Those percentages do not mean every use was frequent, unsafe, or academically inappropriate. “Ever used” includes a wide range of experiences. Pew also found that about three in ten teens used chatbots daily, while other teens used them less often or not at all.
What this means for families: AI literacy is no longer a niche technical subject. A useful first conversation is simply, “Which AI tools have you used, and what did you ask them to do?” The goal is to understand the activity before judging it.
Schoolwork: help, overreliance, and authorship
Pew found that one in ten U.S. teens said chatbots help with all or most of their schoolwork. Another 21% said chatbots help with some of it, and 23% said a little. Forty-five percent said they had not used chatbots in this way.
Research help and math support were among the more common school uses. Editing was less common, although 35% of teens said they had used a chatbot to edit something they wrote. At the same time, 59% thought students at their school use AI to cheat at least sometimes.
Important distinction: receiving help is not automatically cheating. A teacher may permit brainstorming, explanation, practice questions, language support, or feedback while prohibiting generated answers or undisclosed rewriting. The relevant standard is the school or teacher’s policy, plus the learner’s ability to explain and defend the final work.
A practical authorship test
Before submitting AI-assisted work, a learner should be able to answer four questions:
- What part of the work did I create?
- What part did the tool suggest or change?
- Which claims did I verify, and where?
- Could I explain every idea in my own words without the chatbot open?
If the answer to the last question is no, the tool may have replaced learning rather than supported it.
AI assistants and AI companions are not the same thing
An AI assistant is usually used to answer a question or complete a task. An AI companion is designed—or used—to create conversation that feels personal, relational, or emotionally meaningful. The categories can overlap, but the risks and family rules should not be treated as identical.
Common Sense Media surveyed a nationally representative sample of 1,060 U.S. teens ages 13–17 in April and May 2025. Its definition focused specifically on AI companions, not ordinary homework helpers, image generators, or voice assistants.
The same report found that 33% of companion users had chosen the AI instead of a person for an important or serious conversation at least once. But the picture was not uniformly negative: 80% of companion users said they spent more time with real friends than with AI companions. Research should be read as a pattern of benefits and concerns, not proof that every user is isolated or harmed.
What this means for families: ask whether the system is being used as a tool, a character, a friend, or a source of emotional advice. The same app can be used in more than one of those ways. Rules should become stricter when the conversation is private, emotionally serious, or designed to feel like a relationship.
What the risks actually are
1. Confident misinformation
A language model can produce invented citations, incorrect calculations, or incomplete advice in fluent language. The problem is not simply that it can be wrong; it is that the tone may not reveal the uncertainty.
2. Privacy without a clear boundary
Children may treat a chat box like a private conversation and share names, locations, school information, health concerns, images, or another person’s story. The service’s storage, training, moderation, and deletion practices vary by provider.
3. Overreliance and reduced ownership
When a tool supplies the structure, wording, and conclusions of a task, a learner can finish without practising the underlying skill. Overreliance is about the role the tool plays—not merely how often it is opened.
4. Bias and missing perspectives
Outputs can reflect gaps or stereotypes in training data, evaluation, and product design. Children need practice asking whose perspective is missing and whether the answer would change for another person or context.
5. Relationship-like design
A chatbot’s warmth, agreement, availability, and memory can make it feel more understanding than it is. It does not owe a duty of care, keep professional confidentiality, or reliably recognize when a child needs human support.
UNICEF’s 2025 child-centred AI guidance emphasizes safety, privacy, fairness, transparency, wellbeing, inclusion, and preparing children for an AI-shaped world. Its 2026 multi-country snapshot also cautions that evidence is still sparse and adoption is moving faster than research.
A proportionate family response
Rules work better when they describe a decision, not just a banned product. A family can use the following ladder:
Examples: brainstorming a fictional character, generating practice questions, or asking for another explanation of a familiar concept. Do not include personal information, and check any factual claim.
Examples: school assignments, news, persuasive writing, or decisions involving another person. Follow the school policy, disclose assistance when required, and verify with an approved source.
Examples: health, safety, legal, financial, sexual, self-harm, abuse, threats, or emotionally serious problems. A chatbot may help organize a question, but it should not be the decision-maker or only source of support.
Five family rules worth writing down
- We do not enter passwords, precise location, private images, health details, or another person’s information.
- We check important claims with a reliable source or qualified person.
- We follow the teacher’s AI policy and disclose help when required.
- We do not treat friendly language as proof that a system understands or cares.
- We can show an uncomfortable conversation to a trusted adult without getting in trouble for asking for help.
How to read the research responsibly
These studies answer different questions. Pew measured broad chatbot use; Common Sense Media focused on AI companions; UNICEF combined evidence from multiple countries and projects. Their percentages should not be added together or treated as directly comparable.
Survey answers are self-reported. Definitions, products, safety features, and teen behaviour change quickly. A percentage can describe prevalence, but it does not prove that AI caused a particular outcome. It also does not tell a parent what one individual child is doing.
The most useful conclusion is therefore modest: children are encountering AI at meaningful scale, the context of use matters, and families need practical literacy and open communication more than a single universal rule.
Sources and methodology
- Pew Research Center, How Teens Use and View AI (February 24, 2026). Survey of 1,458 U.S. teens ages 13–17 and their parents, September 25–October 9, 2025; overall margin of error ±3.3 percentage points.
- Common Sense Media, Talk, Trust, and Trade-Offs: How and Why Teens Use AI Companions (2025). Nationally representative survey of 1,060 U.S. teens ages 13–17, conducted April–May 2025.
- UNICEF Innocenti, Guidance on AI and Children, version 3 (December 2025).
- UNICEF Innocenti, Snapshot of AI Usage and Concerns Among Children and Parents (June 2026).